Serenity Now

Of Chuck Taylor and a Can of Worms

2011-10-09T15:23:00.004-04:00

I woke up in the middle of the night on Friday thinking..."where are those Chuck Taylors?" You see, when Noah was little, I bought him a pair of vintage Chucks on Ebay. It was my attempt at being mathcy-matchy with my kid...when your mom/son...sneakers are as matchy-matchy as you can get. Noah didn't like the way they felt. When they fit Peter, HE didn't like the way they felt. Hoping they would last, I packed them away knowing 8 years down the road they'd fit somebody.

Saturday morning, poured a cup of coffee, and set off to find them...somewhere...in the attic. I opened the door, and immediately wanted to shut it and pretend that I didn't see that huge mess. As luck would have it, I immediately saw a box labeled "boys size 7 pants, size large dress shirts, size 1 boots, size medium sweatshirts, and...CHUCK TAYLORS SIZE 1. Evidently, THAT box was packed in one of those OCD moments, which are rare...oh, shut up...yes they are! Anyway it was taped up like Fort Knox, I got it open, grabbed the chucks and searched for Oliver like the he was Cinderella or something. Please God...let him "like" the way they feel, I prayed. You see, Steven and I both love Chucks (we're both in need of new ones) and if we don't have at least ONE kid that loves them too...well, theirs always adoption!

HE LIKES THEM...HE LIKES THEM...HEY MIKEY!!!!
Um....now we have to teach him how to tie his shoes, because in this world of velcro and slip-ons, I'm afraid we've neglected to do that.

Back to the attic to re-stack the boxes, and despite every instinct to turn and walk away from the mess...I couldn't. Darn...cleaning the attic was NOT on my list of things to do, but I just couldn't help myself.

Before I tell you what I found, let me tell you that I had just...and I mean JUST told Steven that Oliver needed 2 more pair of school pants (trying to make it through a week with 3 wasn't happening), and at least 1 more pair of play pants. Linus needed all new winter clothes, underwear, and PJ's.

Fast-forward 3 hours later, I had found an entire winter wardrobe for Linus, and a whole other box of spring/summer for next year. 10 pair of Linus-size underwear, more PJ's than I can fit in his drawer including 6 footed sleepers. That's gold to me...I hate bying PJ's...it PAINS me to spend money on PJ's. Then...get this...I found 2 pairs of Oliver-sized khaki pants, and a nice pair of Hannah Andersson play pants.

I also managed to fill 2 boxes with baby clothes for a friend, a huge bag of 3T stuff for another friend, put away and labeled all the heirloom/family/handmade things that I'm saving for, ahem, grandchildren...not that I'm old enough or anything, but it doesn't hurt to plan, and 2 bags of maternity clothes for Goodwill. All of this because I wanted to find a pair of shoes! See how God works? He knew that attic needed to be cleaned...he knew my kids needed clothes...now several people get to benefit from the little middle-of-the-night obesession about finding those sneakers.

Now...about the bathrooms that didn't get cleaned because I was putzing around in the attic all day....

Sewing and Fish

2011-08-31T15:46:00.006-04:00

I haven't done much sewing this summer with the exception of tons of tees for Linus and Oliver. Last night I finally got around to drafting some patterns for myself so that I can use the yard of lovely linen that I got for a steal and have been saving all for meeeee! Mid drafting Peter yelled "Jill you got a package" and proceeded to deliver to me the very book his mother co-authored...the one I pre-ordered because I have no patience and I wanted it months ago...the one that's going to help me make some a.dor.a.ble clothing for my kiddles.
Gasp! First impression...It's hardcover with ring binding! Of course it is because Karen and Shelly both know that it will be opened and closed thousands of times, flipped about, sat on, stepped on, act as a table for lego-building, coffee coaster, etc. And inside the front cover is compartment for all of the wonderful patterns, folded with purpose and reason, unlike the onion skin patterns of old that are folded so that you can never re-fold the same way OR fit back into the pattern envelope. Aside...who folds those anyway, and is there any rhyme or reason to it?(seriously, I want to know).
And I thought they gave us a pretty thorough preview of the book on their website and flickr, but NO! It's so much more than I thought, and I don't think I'll have to buy another boy pattern ever...modifications to their basics will last until the boys grow out the sizes provided.
My only disappointment is that page 33/34 was left out of the binding process, folded in half, and stuck between pages 32 and 35.

As if that didn't make the evening exciting enough...Steven caught a 15.5 inch Bass which he proceeded to clean and gut and found a completely intact crawfish in the stomach. Couldn't watch...it was very gross. I grew up watching my grandfather do this, but somehow I'm not as facinated as I used to be.

Gotta sew....

Le Apron

2011-05-15T12:20:00.005-04:00

An old theater pal of mine decided to up and start a cupcake company. Introducing...Le Cupcake! Go to her facebook page and "like". I am also in the throws of starting the Michigan Cupcake Company, and thought when we both come head to head at Cupcake Wars, she'll need something cute for the competition.

Enter...Le Apron. I didn't ask ahead of time if she wanted a half or full apron, so I decided to make the bib detachable. Why haven't I thought of this before? I know I don't have time to make and stock my Etsy store with these, so I'm going to tweak the design a bit and share in a tutorial coming soon so everyone can make their own. In the meantime, I must make one for myself, so that when we come head to head...or cupcake to cupcake on the Food Network I'm not wearing the restaurant-style, plain white one I wear in my own kitchen.

And speaking of cupcakes...I had an order for snake-themed cupcakes this weekend.

Oliver's 6th Birthday

2011-03-27T15:37:00.005-04:00

Although a few weeks late, we finally celebrated Oliver's 6th birthday. He asked for an art-themed party at Kids n Stuff. I knew immediately that I wanted to design the cake to include my favorite painting of his. I took it to the printer and had them reduce it so that I didn't have to make a double sheet cake just to accomodate the painting. The cake was not nearly as elaborate as my original design, but I just didn't have the time to do everything I wanted. He asked for vanilla and chocolate with a cream cheese filling. Since he was giving me carte blanche on the icing, I got crazy and made a rootbeer buttercream (it wasn't very rootbeer-y...will have to tweek that recipe). I made the palate out of fondant, and used primary color decorator icing for the border and "paint". Each guest was provided an easel (we got these from IKEA for .99 ea), and a 5x7 canvas, and got to do their own painting to take home. Our party room was right next to the art room which was very convenient. The kids all had a great time, and everyone seemed to leave happy! Aside...It was the first time Oliver invited school friends, and I think it will be the last unless I know the parents personally. Of the 6 that were invited, only ONE responded (2 hours before), and was the ONLY ONE TO SHOW UP! What happened to social etiquette? Thankfully, Oliver didn't seem to care. Between family friends and cousins, we had quite a crowd. Yes, our overly-ambitious 6 year old was very happy indeed.

More Figgy's For Linus

2011-03-20T15:02:00.003-04:00

I knew if I bought a new pattern it would give me the impetus to get through some of the unfinished items in my queue. After finishing 3 of them, I rewarded myself by diving into the Tee For Two pattern from Patterns by Figgy's. Within an hour, I had 2 sizes traced, and 4 shirts cut out. Since one of the unfinshed items that I got around to was a pair of Dapper Dillingers meant for Christmas, I decided to make a shirt to match (too late now for the intentioned turtle neck and vest). Linus is all about Batman, and inspired by this tutorial by Kim on the PBF blog, I decided to embellish.

The size 2/3 pants are still huge on my smaller than normal 3 1/2 year old, but that means they may just fit next fall too. Next is one for Oliver who when asked what embellishment he wanted, requested an "R". Confused, he clicked his tongue at me and said "well, Linus is Batman, I'll be Robin".

5th in Queue

2011-03-17T08:28:00.003-04:00

So excited when I got home and found my new Figgy's pattern had arrived. Totally bummed that I have so little time to sew, and 5 other projects in queue before I can start. Check out the vintage "theme park" knit that I picked up last year at Arts and Scraps for almost nothing. It's going to make for some really cute pajamas for Linus and Oliver.

Speaking of sewing for Linus and Oliver. One of the things in my queue is their Christmas outfits! Do you think it will be too warm on Easter for corduroy...it's baby blue?

Creative Solutions

2010-11-21T15:16:00.005-05:00

Oliver found his creative side a bit ago, and proceeded to take a marker to all things but paper. The worst of it was my mother-in-law's dining room chair.

So off to the fabric store I went, with a swatch of her wallpaper in hand, and a few measurements. I settled on "turkey red" quilting cotton as it was only $4.99/yd, AND I had a 40% off coupon. Having never made chair covers, I thought...I'm not spending a lot of money if I'm going to flub it up. I made a few sketches, and traced the seat to make a pattern. Of course he couldn't pick a chair with a square or rectangular seat...it had to be scalloped...really?

I used some tan sheeting I had laying around to line the back. It is essentially like a pillowcase, but I added a triangular piece that wraps around the bottom and buttons in the back. I love the way this looked, and it was super-easy. The skirt was a challenge...*all* that gathering...jeez! And just because I didn't want the turkey red chair to feel like the odd chair out, I covered 2 so it looks like they're supposed to be different from the others. Guess what she wants for Christmas? Covers for the other 6!!!

What Are They Teaching In Kindergarten These Days?

2010-10-18T19:18:00.004-04:00

Oliver has suddenly tapped into his artistic side. However...and that is a BIG however...his inspiration seems to come when holding permanent marker, and with no paper in site, he draws on what is available. That may be the wall, the window, the furniture, the ivory upholstered chairs in my mother in laws formal dining room...just about anything.

Anyhoo...my mother in law suggested that he may be stressed out from going to school all day long. So since his school offers full or half-day kindergarten, I thought I'd ask him what he thought. Our brief conversation went like this:

Me: Oliver...is going to school all day, every day too much for you? Do you think you'd like to go half-day on some days?

Oliver: Sure...like Landon and Hunter D.? (the initial is because there is indeed, more than 1 Hunter in his class)

Me: Yes. Maybe you can go all day on Monday, Wednesday and Friday, and half-day on Tuesday and Friday.

Oliver: Hmm...typical A/B pattern.

Me: Ummm...yea.

The Rules...According to Oliver

2010-09-26T15:25:00.002-04:00

1. Don't leave the park without your shoes.

2. Don't leave the house without your slurpee...if you have one.

3. Don't hang your clothes up before you take them off. Otherwise you hang yourself up.

4. Don't swing the bat until the ball comes.

Packing

2010-06-22T13:17:00.005-04:00

Steven hasn't said anything (yet), but I'm sure he thinks I'm crazy. I however, think it's a great idea. I've packed Linus and Oliver's clothes in individual ziploc bags. The reasons why I think this is practical are endless, but mainly it will make for a more peacful camping trip.

While I was packing I discovered Linus and Oliver "camping" in my closet with the lantern.

I made some travel washcloths by cutting up an old knit receiving blanket, zig-zagging and pinking around the edges.

It helps to pink over the garbage can.

Our New Home

2010-06-14T09:48:00.012-04:00

Last weekend we headed out to the new house. I want to get everything cleaned before moving all of our things in. Steven insists that moving is simply "throwing everything in boxes and putting them on a truck". Funny, isn't he? We all know it's a little more involved than that. Luckily because we're in such a small space now, I'm pretty organized, but it's still a lot of work. So here are some pictures previewing our new space.

This is my favorite feature...A MUD ROOM! With 4 boys who are forever coming in the house covered in water, dirt, snow etc., this room is simply the best.

The kitchen offers lots more space than I'm used to. Cabinets galore...yay!

Dining Room

Living Room

Parlor/Study (Steven's Oasis)

My Sewing Room...needs wallpaper removal and a coat of paint, but LOTS of space for my machines, and I can finally have a cutting table! No more bending over the dinning room table tracing and cutting.

Here are the bedrooms. Noah and Peter could have each had their own, but quickly decided to continue sharing (neither wanted the small room). Small room or not, I think they're just used to it, and would miss eachother. We'll finally have a quest room! We have some paper removal and painting to do up here as well (except for the Master).

We have a great yard that's fenced-in, thank goodness! This is a photo of the overgrown Japanese Garden. I'll have lots of fun getting that cleaned out...there's a pond in there somewhere which right now is inhabitied by frogs, which of course, the boys think is great. Let's hope I don't find one in my bed!

We've found an excellent school for Noah and Oliver in Marshall. The Marshall Academy is a charter school about 20 minutes away, and is K-12, so I have only 1 stop! Noah will go from being 1 or 250 to 1 of 25, Oliver will just LOVE the kindergarten program, and they offer Latin...oh boy!

Our house is only 1 block from the main street in town, and we're within walking distance of the library, the park, and my in-laws. Steven and I may get a date night more often than once a year...woo hoo!! And of course, Kids-n-Stuff is right around the corner. It's Oliver's favorite thing about Albion, and I'm sure we'll be spending lot's of time there.

We have to be all settled before school starts, so we've got a busy summer ahead...off to do some packing.

This - n - That

2010-05-19T19:03:00.010-04:00

I love getting hand-me-downs. This little lovely was given to me by my friend Anita who got a new one for Mother's Day.

This past weekend the boys practiced putting their tent up. We wanted to make sure that they would be able to do it alone. With 2 tents and a gazebo to erect...they're going to have a bit of work to do.

I created this little number (well one like it) for my cousin Amy who needed a baby shower gift with "no pink". It's created quite the buzz, and I've had a few other orders since...Thanks Amy!

I love when people put little girls (babies especially)in colors that aren't girly. To that end, I can't imagine why I still haven't sold this little number. I think I made this 2 years ago, and it's been in the store since. Someone buy this...please!

And look at the ruffles on the back of the bloomers!!!

What else....oh, I got a new camera for Mother's Day, and none too soon. I retired my old one to Noah, and the next day it went caput! These are a couple of my favorite pics taken with it so far.

Oh and speaking of patterns. I've just ordered this, and purchased yardage allowing Oliver and Linus to "help" pick out what they want. I can't wait for it to arrive and get going.

Oh, I hear Linus waking and calling for me...motherhood beckons!

Boxing Linus

2010-05-05T22:53:00.004-04:00

Linus loves to play boxing on the Wii. He can beat anyone...anytime. I'm not kidding. It appears that he stops every so often and channels Martha Graham.

Mary Go Round Dress

2010-04-29T23:50:00.007-04:00

Two of the most talented seamstresses out there have combined their design talents, and have launched a new line of patterns for children's clothing that I just love. Shelly of Figgy's Kids, and Karen of One Girl Circus are the creative genius behind these heirloom quality designs.

Which one to try first...I was really on the fence. Do I sew something for my own boys, or do I give in and sew something girly? Because I love all things reversible, the Mary Go Round Dress won. I had the fabric washed and ready before the pattern even arrived.

Aside...I rarely use patterns (except pieces here and there) and follow directions, so this was a departure for me. But I know Karen (in real life) and know that I could only improve my skills by imitating her techniques.

Getting started...I cut my fabrics. The pattern piece says cut 2 each of main and lining fabrics (knew this had to be wrong). Looking in the instructions, I saw that cutting 1 of each was correct.

I stitched the shoulder seams, and then both dresses together along the outer edge. I wrapped it around Linus to check length (this is only done when Steven isn't home), and thought it needed additional length...or something that would allow for movement and play without showing panties ;o, so I decided to cut a pair of bloomers to pair with it.

Now the next step is a testament to my inability to properly follow directions. I clipped the armholes, turned them toward the inside, pressed, pinned together, and topstitched...them together. Yes, I should have stitched them separately, and even while I did it was thinking...how am I going to be able to turn this right side out?

After un-sewing 2 armholes...yes, I came to my senses before sewing all 3...I turned, pressed, topstitched. THEN topstitched the armholes which were now messy, messy, messy.

I opted for buttons and an elastic loop closure, and rounded the bottom edges as I do with my own reversible wrap skirts. Added ruffles to the bloomers...because, who doesn't love ruffles?

Since Karen and Shelly are generous enough to allow home sewers to sell their designs, I will surely be making these for my Etsy store, and adding some to my rack at Dandelion's. I think next time I will try using bias tape around the armholes as the pattern suggests as an alternative option. For now, this little number will go to my niece who will not care how messy the armholes look.

Patterns by Figgy's #2??? I think will have to be the board shorts and matching hoodie. While I have my own board short design, theirs is much more trim, and of course...I have to make that hoodie!

He Is His Father's Son

2010-04-28T17:49:00.002-04:00

While visiting my in-laws, Oliver was out back playing in the fountain/birdbath. When my mother in law asked what he was playing he said...

"Vampire in the water, crucified by the ghost of death. He really lives in the sea, but he got here by flying, and now he lives in your fountain. His name is Tusaminetu."

To prove my point, I should post the picture of Steven pretending to be Sir Ghastly Graves in his "coffin" made from couch cushions...he was still in diapers.

Playing Catch-Up

2010-04-27T21:41:00.010-04:00

Oh it's been a while...how many times have I said that? So much happening, so many changes, so many tests of faith...patience...the whole kit and kaboodle.

I've been doing some more sewing for my own kids. I'm determined to have them in more handmade this summer than store-bought. I started with these alien outfits. Took my board shorts pattern from last summer, and mixed it up a bit. Oliver designed the alien.

I made these pants last year, and was about to list them in the store when I noticed the back had a few splatters of something resembling yellow paint. The green linen is from a recycled table cloth, so it could be just about anything. Happily, I upcycled a tee with a few appliques, and now it's one of Linus' favorites.

Easter was spent in Rockford with family. We had 1 or 2 days of nice weather and took advantage of visiting our favorite park.

While in Rockford my cousin Eileen was diagnosed with colon cancer. She has since had surgery to remove the tumor and will soon start chemo for 6 months. As a wife and mother of 6, anything other than a complete, cancer-free recovery is not an option. Please keep her, and her family in your prayers. Her complete abandon to the will of God is a testament to the strength of her faith. I can't say that I would show the same strength. Anyway, all I can do (aside from pray) is offer to make some hats...so that's what I'm doing.

This one I made because my cousin Steffie, who's a CRNA asked me to make some scrub caps to wear in the OR. But not only is Eileen going to get a couple of these, but I think I may make some for myself. This one matches a skirt I just made for myself (needs tweaking so no pics yet), and the best part is that I can fit ALL of my hair in there. Looks a bit "rasta" too, doesn't it?

So as if all of that isn't enough...there's a move on the horizon. But that's a post for another day. Just pray that our house sells.

History Repeats Itself

2010-04-01T22:33:00.006-04:00

Why is it that when my boys are 2 1/2, there is always a phone call to poison control? Is it just me...just my kids?

When Noah was 2 1/2 he loved blueberries. We had an indoor/outdoor cat and lived next to the woods, so she would frequently get ticks. Yep, you know where this is going, don't you? A blood-filled tick, the size of a blueberry dropped off of her somewhere in the house, and I found Noah (ugh...can't even say it). Freaked out, I called poison control. All was well, but as you can see, 10 years later, I'm still grossed out.

When Oliver was 2 1/2 he got a hold of a handful of the clorox cleaning wipes. I found him sitting in the living room sucking on them. Guess what? He's not the only kid that's done that, nor am I the only freaked out mom to call poison control with the same story.

When Linus was 2 1/2...oh, wait...that would be now, he ate 500mg of acetaminophen. Let me just say that I do not leave medicine hanging around the house. Noah had new wires put on his braces 2 days ago, and when he went to bed last night he put them next to his bed with a cup of water in anticipation of waking in the middle of the night in pain. Evidently he didn't, nor did he put them back in the bottle. And while I was distracted with laundry this evening, Linus found them. So Rita at Poison Control (we're BFF's now) said that it would take 3 or 4 extra strength Tylenol before I would need to worry.

I am comforted by the thought that the traumatic event and subsequent call to Poison Control has passed.

Ugh...Not the Toilet!

2010-03-29T10:48:00.015-04:00

If you read my blog, you know that Linus has an affinity for putting things in the toilet that don't belong there. Well, toilet paper does belongs there...just not 10 rolls at a time. Anyway, we were at my in-laws yesterday, when Linus runs into the back room holding his great-grandmother's dentures asking "who's this...your teef?"

Aside...Linus says "who's this", when asking any "who, what, why, where, and how" questions.

My camera was in my purse, so no pictures of that moment...but it was hysterical. Upon further investigation, we found that his adventures in the bathroom amounted to more than just finding Grammy's dentures.

Later, he found Peggy's measuring tape. I wear mine around my neck while I'm working, so that's just what he did.

Oliver came in at one point...tapping finger on cheek...and said "I need to make a list for room O"

Don't ask...life with Oliver is one non-sequitor after another.

Etsy Treasury Feature

2010-03-21T21:30:00.002-04:00

Well lil' ole me made it into an Etsy Treasury. Yay!
It's a lemon-lime theme, and will get you craving lemonade. Take a look here.

The Funny Things They Say, and the Not So Funny Things They Do

2010-03-19T08:45:00.005-04:00

This was a conversation in the car. I was in the passenger seat, and Linus was behind me, kicking my seat.

Me: Linus, stop kicking my seat.

Linus:(Sounding very Italian) "I a kicking you seat"

This was repeated a few times.

Me to Steven: When did he become Italian?

Oliver: Why Italian? Do Italian people kick seats?

Guess you had to be there!

Linus is chuck full of compliments lately. He's always saying "Mama, you my sweeT hearT (capital T's because he emphisizes them). When showing me a picture he drew yesterday, he remarked over and over "Mama, I so proud of you", and "Mama, you my girl".

For all the sweetness he doles out, there is an equal (dare I say greater) amount of trouble. We nearly had another toilet incident like the one in December. Here is the post if you don't remember. He's really into throwing things lately...at people...regardless of their size or ability to cause damage. We no longer allow even the softest of balls in the house as he threw one at the front window on Sunday. Just one more thing to add to the "needs to be fixed" list.

Thought Provoking Email

2010-03-15T18:42:00.002-04:00

I receive lots of emails with moving stories, a prayer at the end, and then the command to sent to 100 people or God will think I don't love him. Hrumph! Anyway, I received an email today with a lovely story, that I've read before, and whether that story specifically is true or not, I do not know, and do not care. I'm sure that there are "Kevins" out there.

My own brother was born with his own set of challenges, but his life was no more or less valuable than any others.

Our pregnancies (especially when you're my age)are riddled with warnings, and we're berated with recommendations for testing to determine if our baby has any defects. If he or she is less than perfect (according to medical and societal standards), there is the obvious "out". Abort.

Now I can't pretend to know what it is like to think you're having a perfectly healthy baby, and find out that is not the case, be it at birth or during pregnancy. My heart aches for the women who know their babies are going to be born with a fatal defect and won't live more than a few hours, yet carry that baby lovingly as they would any other. Singing to her, talking to her waiting for the day she is born and only to have to give her right back to God. Certainly, they are a testament to true faith with utter abandon.

Those women, their families, their friends, are changed because of those few minutes with that baby, or the couple of years, or even a very long life with a Down's Syndrome child.

I digress...read the story below. EVERY person is beautiful, perfect, and serves a purpose. How long will it take for the world to realize that?

GOD LIVES UNDER THE BED

I envy Kevin. My brother, Kevin, thinks God lives under his bed. At least that's what I heard him say one night.

He was praying out loud in his dark bedroom, and I stopped to listen, 'Are you there, God?' he said. 'Where are you? Oh, I see. Under the bed...'

I giggled softly and tiptoed off to my own room. Kevin's unique perspectives are often a source of amusement. But that night something else lingered long after the humor. I realized for the first time the very different world Kevin lives in.

He was born 30 years ago, mentally disabled as a result of difficulties during labor. Apart from his size (he's 6-foot-2), there are few ways in which he is an adult.

He reasons and communicates with the capabilities of a 7-year-old, and he always will. He will probably always believe that God lives under his bed, that Santa Claus is the one who fills the space under our tree every Christmas and that airplanes stay up in the sky because angels carry them.

I remember wondering if Kevin realizes he is different. Is he ever dissatisfied with his monotonous life?

Up before dawn each day, off to work at a workshop for the disabled, home to walk our cocker spaniel, return to eat his favorite macaroni-and-cheese for dinner, and later to bed.

The only variation in the entire scheme is laundry, when he hovers excitedly over the washing machine like a mother with her newborn child.

He does not seem dissatisfied.

He lopes out to the bus every morning at 7:05, eager for a day of simple work.
He wrings his hands excitedly while the water boils on the stove before dinner, and he stays up late twice a week to gather our dirty laundry for his next day's laundry chores.

And Saturdays - oh, the bliss of Saturdays! That's the day my Dad takes Kevin to the airport to have a soft drink, watch the planes land, and speculate loudly on the destination of each passenger inside. 'That one's goin' to Chi-car-go! ' Kevin shouts as he claps his hands.

His anticipation is so great he can hardly sleep on Friday nights.
And so goes his world of daily rituals and weekend field trips.

He doesn't know what it means to be discontent.

His life is simple.

He will never know the entanglements of wealth of power, and he does not care what brand of clothing he wears or what kind of food he eats. His needs have always been met, and he never worries that one day they may not be.

His hands are diligent. Kevin is never so happy as when he is working. When he unloads the dishwasher or vacuums the carpet, his heart is completely in it.

He does not shrink from a job when it is begun, and he does not leave a job until it is finished. But when his tasks are done, Kevin knows how to relax.

He is not obsessed with his work or the work of others. His heart is pure.

He still believes everyone tells the truth, promises must be kept, and when you are wrong, you apologize instead of argue.

Free from pride and unconcerned with appearances, Kevin is not afraid to cry when he is hurt, angry or sorry. He is always transparent, always sincere. And he trusts God.

Not confined by intellectual reasoning, when he comes to Christ, he comes as a child. Kevin seems to know God - to really be friends with Him in a way that is difficult for an 'educated' person to grasp. God seems like his closest companion.

In my moments of doubt and frustrations with my Christianity, I envy the security Kevin has in his simple faith.

It is then that I am most willing to admit that he has some divine knowledge that rises above my mortal questions..

It is then I realize that perhaps he is not the one with the handicap. I am. My obligations, my fear, my pride, my circumstances - they all become disabilities when I do not trust them to God's care.

Who knows if Kevin comprehends things I can never learn? After all, he has spent his whole life in that kind of innocence, praying after dark and soaking up the goodness and love of God.

And one day, when the mysteries of heaven are opened, and we are all amazed at how close God really is to our hearts, I'll realize that God heard the simple prayers of a boy who believed that God lived under his bed.

Kevin won't be surprised at all!

Fabric Giveaway

2010-03-12T23:25:00.003-05:00

Maranda at M&M Studio is hosting a giveaway of 3 yards of the lovliest fabric.
She is also asking us to spread the word about Project Playground.

Big Families...The New "Green"

2010-03-11T23:15:00.004-05:00

Found this wonderful article on the Trinity Acres blog and just had to share!
Thank you Mary Ellen Barrett for saying so beautifully what most have no understanding of. We only have 4, but if I'm out with all of them...I get "the look", and the occasional..."wow...4 boys?".

Oliver Turns 5

2010-03-11T22:34:00.006-05:00

Last Sunday we celebrated Oliver's 5th birthday. Where has the time gone? It seems like just yesterday when he was placed on my belly and I yelled "it's a boy"! Steven and I remember the moment differently, but I know that the way I remember is the way it happened. Those moments of birth are etched into our memories in ways that men don't understand (sorry Honey).
We went to Jungle Java with cousins Lydia and Violet, and then out for pizza. Of course, a dinosaur cake was requested. It was a bit of a cop out. My plan was to do a whole scene with sculpted dinosaurs and a volcano, but time got away from me.

When we asked what he would like for his birthday, he said to surprise him (I love that). Since he's uber active, a new bike was in order. Thank goodness the weather this week has been bike riding friendly...I can't seem to get him to come in the house.

I was finally able to get a handle on the reorganization required to accomodate my new serger. I'm almost finished, but here is what things look like at this point. I used the leaf from a table that we no longer have as a shelf, and the brackets that are holding it up have lovely scrolling on the side in which sits a dowel I found in the basement to hold ribbon and my scissors. I love my new table...$20 at IKEA...can't beat that! One more trip for a new chair on wheels and I'll be really happy.

Noah and Peter seem to be having similar issues in school this year...on and off. We seem to be on a bit of an upswing again...thank goodness! So on a positive note, I thought I'd show off some of their recent work. Noah has become very interested in art and science this year. Some of his work is very abstract...but that's not surprising.

Peter spent time with his Pere Pere (Karen's dad) last Saturday who owns a metal shop. He came home proudly displaying his accomplishments.

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Sigh...they can be wonderful...can't they? The same day, they also did a bedroom remodel. I'm not pleased, but I've been told I have to let it go.

Busy Week

2010-02-28T15:03:00.004-05:00

No, we haven't enrolled Linus in hockey. The poor thing has been cursed with "bad" teeth. A small chip this past summer turned into a recurring abscess which his dentist attempted to rectify twice with antibiotics and 4 pulpotomies. The battle was lost, and so is his tooth. Bless his heart. Despite being our most rambunctious child, he is the BEST dental patient. He loves Dr. John, and according to his staff, is the most cooperative patient they've ever had. He also produces an abundance of high acid-producing bacteria which has subjected him to no less than 6 cavities. We pray that his adult teeth are more healthy.

On a lighter note...happy birthday to me...I got a new serger! I'm more excited than you can imagine. However, to make room for it, I've had to do some reorganizing which is still ongoing. Steven took the children to the Science Center yesterday for a few hours and I got a large portion of it done. A trip to IKEA for my work space table, and I'll be back in business. I think it's been 2 weeks since I've made anything, and my work is piling up.

You know your a mom when your grocery list is written in crayon on a piece of coloring book paper.

Roses

2010-02-22T20:56:00.006-05:00

I received beautiful roses from Steven on the feast of St. Valentine. We sat and talked about them for a long time, as I commented on how much they look like the roses I carried on our wedding day. I had intentionally picked a very dark rose...they're so dramatic, and combed all of Rockford for weeks to find a matching lipstick.

All of that trouble, and the florist blows it by putting them in one of those white plastic flower-holder thingys that they make bridal bouquets out of. I visited the florist at least twice, and spoke on the phone numerous times before the big day to review the details(no control issues here,)and was adamant about having the stems left on, and having them wrapped in ivory satin ribbon. I expressed my strong dislike for the flower-holder thingys with the plastic white handles every chance that I had. I guess I should have done it just one more time.

It's the big day...the flowers show up while I am otherwise engaged. Well, I just about flipped out. There were my roses...my beautiful roses...not long-stemmed, not wrapped tightly in a lovely ribbon of ivory satin in that criss-cross, braidy type design that they do. No, no. My 2 dozen deep, red roses were snipped short, and shoved inside a piece of florist foam that sat inside the dreaded white, plastic-handled flower-holder thingy. And to add insult to injury (pardon me, I'm getting all choked up), there was a big purple ribbon stuck in the side. Mind you, the florist foam had been soaked in water so that my lovely roses did not die, so this thing was heavy! I couldn't carry them...I wanted to put them in a stroller and push them up the aisle! Oh yes! If you don't believe me, ask my chiropractor, and the orthopedist who performed my carpal tunnel surgery.

But I digress...my Valentine roses...yes, that's what I was talking about. A couple of days ago, they were on the hutch in the dining room, and the way the sunlight was coming in inspired these next photos. I stood there for a long time shooting, impressed with how much they changed as the sunlight peeked in and out of the clouds. They appear so peaceful. You have no idea the chaos that was erupting while I was doing this. I can't remember specifically what it was, as God blesses mothers with the ability to forget, from one day to the next, the incidents that don't involve hospital visits, the police/fire department, or blood. Well, sometimes, I forget the bloody ones. It depends on how much blood was involved, how many band-aids said blood required, and whether the presence of blood was accidental, self-inflicted, or the result of brotherly love.

...Sigh...aren't they lovely? Cue peaceful music...preferably the theme song to Somewhere In Time.

My New Website...Yay!

2010-02-19T10:25:00.002-05:00

Thanks to Weebly.com, I finally managed to get my own website up and going. I purchased the domain name eons ago, and have since, just kept putting it off, or only giving it a few minutes here and there.

It's pretty basic, a little less high-tech than I wanted, but the price of FREE was right up my alley. There were times when I wanted to throw my hands up and beg someone to help me get it looking the way that I wanted too, but I persevered and got it done myself. If I had known a little more HTML, I could have really jazzed it up.

Anyhoo...I'd love to get some feedback, and suggestions!

And I have lots of photos and stories to share that have been piling up...I just never seem to make it here. Soon...very soon.

Very Important Prayer Request

2010-02-19T10:06:00.001-05:00

This message came from a friend of mine in Rockford. Please pray for Christine, her family, and for baby Marita.

As many of you already know there have been some concerns over the
baby I am carrying--I am about 25 weeks along. 4 weeks ago I had an
ultrasound done that showed that the baby had only one functioning
kidney and had a 1 in 13 chance of Downs syndrome. Well, yesterday we
had another ultrasound done and it didn't look good. The kidney has
swollen and is blocked. This is causing the other organs to be pushed
out of place, the heart to work harder and the lungs will not be able
to fully develop. The doctor can go in and try to drain the kidney
but feels that it would just fill right back up and there is a high
danger of killing the baby if this procedure is done. By not doing
anything it is possible the baby will die in utero or be born with
serious medical complications and may not survive long. But also, by
not doing something it is possible the kidney swelling could go down.
The doctor just doesn't know--it is not possible to know what could/
will happen. Any prayers or sacrifices you could offer for the baby
and us--we named her Marita (Mary and St. Rita combined) would be
greatly appreciated. We are being scheduled for a second opinion from
another doctor soon. If you belong to other prayer chains and could
pass this intention along, that would be great. We are praying for a
miracle but more importantly the strength to accept God's will.
Christine

I Miss My Camera

2010-01-22T19:13:00.007-05:00

I left my camera at my in-laws (who live 90 minutes away) about 4 or 5 weeks ago, and it's driving me crazy. Those of you who know me well, know that I go nowhere without it...it's become an appendage. It's one of the reasons there have been no posts recently. Post without a picture? No way! In tribute to my little Kodak Easyshare C330, I'm revisiting some of my favorite moments captured with it. The photo above is one of those. Is it bad to say I'm not sure if it's Oliver or Linus? I guess checking the date would solve that mystery.

Aside....
Oliver said something at school the other day, that amused his teacher such that she wrote it down, dated it and sent it home. He was speaking with his friend Chase and said "My mom and dad don't smoke anymore. They used to smoke in the old days. You know, back in the 1980's and the 1940's"
What?

Now this next one I had to throw in here simply because it makes me smile. Nothing says proud big brother like this big smile despite the screaming.

This is one of my favorites of all time. We were vacationing in the Upper Peninsula, did quite a bit of hiking on this particular day which was beastly hot...fun during the 7th month of pregnancy. Then came across this spot near Taquamenon Falls. We lingered and played there in the water for a long, long time. It's one of my favorite family memories. The rest are more from the same vacation.

Christmas 2009

2009-12-29T09:42:00.007-05:00

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Originally uploaded by sunshine0216

As Steven and I wrapped gifts on Christmas Eve we talked about how magical Christmas was for us as children. We shared stories about what our most memorable gifts and moments were.

I am always amazed when I think back to what my parents did. There were no signs (decorative-wise) of Christmas in our home before Christmas day. When we went to bed on Christmas Eve...my mom and dad got to work...all night long. They put up the tree and decorated it, put decorations around the house, wrapped gifts, putting together bicycles and other toys that needed assembly. It's just remarkable to think about it. I can remember the absolute awe I felt on Christmas morning, walking into the living room and seeing the tree, the lights, and the gifts.

As amazing as it was, I couldn't imagine doing that myself. It took everything I had to stay up and wrap gifts until 11:30 or so.

On Christmas Eve we went to visit Steven's grandmother who is in a convalescent home recovering from surgery and awaiting another one. We stayed for about an hour, and to my delight, the children were very well behaved. It helped that she has a roommate that's a pistol, and just gushed over Linus. Of course, it didn't hurt that Grandpa had homemade cookies for them.

The rest of the day I spent in the kitchen preparing Christmas Eve dinner, and a cake to take to my mother in laws on Christmas. I was attempting to roast a cut of meat I had never worked with before, and failed miserably. It was tough and dry...uck! It was the first time I cooked something that couldn't be hidden or masked some way with a sauce or great side dishes...it was just a compelte wash.

After dinner I decided to whip up a batch of bannana muffins for the morning. Realizing I had no eggs left, I sent Steven out. While he was doing that, and the kids were occupied with Grandpa, I took the opportunity to start packing for the weekend at my in-laws. Steven returned with the eggs and I continued my muffins, but heard a strange dripping noise behind me.
Aside...I have to say here that half of our ceiling in the kitchen is missing from a bathroom re-do 2 years ago, so there are exposed pipes etc.
Turning around, I discovered water dripping into the kitchen from the bathroom above. Linus, I thought....where's Linus?

Well, Linus had taken all 10 rolls of toilet paper and shoved them in the toilet. All the flushing was creating a waterfall effect, and he was really enjoying it. Ugh! What a mess...and no toilet paper left to boot!

Christmas morning the angels were working overtime, because the children were all relatively good at Mass. Linus only asked to nurse once (I think he's finally getting that we won't be nursing in church anymore :o ), and there was no yelling "Jesus is coming" during the consecration. Yay! Steven and I are waiting anxiously for the day when the children are all old enough that we can re-join the choir.

The children got a Wii this year with the help of grandparents, and pretty much played all weekend. Steven and I are a bit anti-video game. I just think that there are far too many electronic devices around these days that are de-humanizing us, and keeping us from face to face interaction...but that's another post for another day. Anyhoo...we agreed that a Wii would be a great family oriented game. I'm excited that something has come along that we can all do together, and doesn't involve one child sitting solitarily huddled over a 3 inch screen. With Noah and Peter out of town for the rest of the week, I'm enjoying playing it with the younger kids. Oliver is already a pro, and Linus is thoroghly frustrated.

Just a Guy In a Costume

2009-12-21T09:32:00.002-05:00

This is Oliver and Santa at the Christmas party that was held at Oliver's pre-school. Santa was anything a child would imagine Santa to be...soft-spoken, jolly, attentive...the Santa every child sees in their dreams.

Last night, we packed the kids into the van and headed to the Wayne County Lightfest. We turned on the Christmas music and enjoyed miles and miles of lighted fun. It ends at the "North Pole" where we stood in line to see and take pictures with Santa. There was a partition up, so you couldn't actually see him until you were at the front of the line. As we stood waiting our turn, knowing that Linus would want nothing to do with this, Oliver spotted Santa and very matter-of-factly said, "he doesn't have boots on...just black sneakers...that's not Santa...he's just a guy in a costume." He didn't seem disappointed and sat on his lap to talk to him anyway.

My Son, the Potter

2009-12-17T10:05:00.002-05:00

pottery
Originally uploaded by sunshine0216

It seems that Noah has taken a genuine interest in pottery. Although he never seemed too artistically inclined, in the last year or so he seems to have developed an interest in drawing and sketching, and art in general. He was very excited to be working with clay this semester in school, and these 2 cups are the beautiful fruits of his labor.

The VanHouten Quilt

2009-12-17T09:53:00.004-05:00

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Originally uploaded by sunshine0216

My mother recently sent me a quilt that was used on my bed as a little girl. It was made by my great-great Grandmother Van Houten. After giving it a good cleaning, I could only salvage about half of it. I decided to remove the squares that could be used, and make these pretty little birds. I'm packing them up and sending them to everyone in the family so that everyone has a bit of the Van Houten family to pass on.

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Originally uploaded by sunshine0216

How Are You? REALLY!

2009-12-01T17:41:00.004-05:00

So I went to CVS today. I had just been in a "No Worker Left Behind" orientation at Michigan Works. This is the baby of our illustrious Gov. Jennifer Granholm...don't get me started on her...and by the way...I'm feeling VERY LEFT BEHIND!! That's a story for another day. Anyhoo...CVS. I needed Tylenol, and cough drops. I guess I should add that I've had a cold since Thursday, and it hasn't been all that bad, but has robbed me of my voice almost entirely.

I approach the cash register, and am greeted with a cheery "how are you today"? "I'm fine thank you...and you", I responded in my hoarse voice that's a cross between Kathleen Turner and Brenda Vacarro. Steven likes this, by the way, and I think maybe I should splurge on a blonde wig and we can play "Romancing the Stone". But I digress. Evidentally, "fine, thank you" wasn't sufficient. She said, "well, you can't be THAT fine...you're buying Tylenol and cough drops, and you sound horrible."

So...she wants to know how I am for REAL? How often does THAT happen. So I decided to tell her like it is...and this is what I said. "Well, you can see that I have a cold, and the Tylenol is for cramps because I also have my period. I'm getting the cough drops in the hopes of surpressing my cough, because each time I cough my tampax comes halfway out (ladies...you know that this is NOT comfortable), luckily I also always have a pad on, but that's because I've birthed so many babies that my bladder control has been compromised such that every time I cough or sneeze, I wet myself.

"Mmmmm", she said with a knowing head bob, and a kind "feel better soon". Thank you, I said cheerfully and was on my way. I think Betty Ann CVS lady will think twice before asking anyone how they REALLY are....ya think?

Big Boy Tasks

2009-11-08T08:16:00.003-05:00

Ever since Oliver started pre-school, his desire to really learn to read has increased significantly. He's been reading some simple 3 and 4 letter words for quite a while, but didn't get much past that. Well, something just clicked with him, and he's off. It's so much fun to watch him...everywhere we go, he points out words and reads...even grafitti...yay!

We were heading to my in-laws this weekend to celebrate Peter's (yesterday) and Steven's (today) birthdays. I asked Oliver if he'd like to pack his own bag and his eyes widened with excitement. I made him a list of items, told him to place the items on my bed and then make a check mark next to that item on the list.

The shirt and pants he chose were not "church appropriate", but I didn't say a word, he was too proud of himself. Instead I just explained that what he packed would be for play, and that I forgot to put church clothes on the list and would pack them for him.

Funny thing is, he's probably been capable of doing this kind of thing for a long time, but because I don't think anyone else packs the "right" way, I do it for them. It's only recently that I've let the 12 year-olds pack for themselves. It's just annoying to get somewhere and find that you have to wash their underwear in the sink every night because they've forgotten to pack any...not that they care. Jeesh!

Amazing Story!

2009-11-03T08:42:00.000-05:00

American Papist: Not Your Average Catholic!: National News: TX Planned Parenthood director resigns after witnessing ultrasound, story drawing national attention ( video & inside details)

I Want a Pair Too!

2009-10-21T16:17:00.003-04:00

Oh I poured over sketches, and cut out bits and pieces of paper in an attempt to make elf shoes to go with Linus' halloween costume, but just couldn't get it right. Who to turn to? Google, of course, and in doing so found this pattern at about.com. The directions were vague, and a little wonky to say the least, so I just used the pattern pieces and made my own adjustments. I didn't have any felt in the right color, so in an effort to be frugal used what I had; some scraps of green flannel, recycled denim for the bottom, and the last bit of brown striped ribbon that matches the ribbon on his elf hat.
I love them! They're far from perfect, but a couple more pairs, and I'll have the process down to a science. I think they'll be making an appearance on Etsy. One may think "aside from Halloween, what would the need be for elf shoes", but I've seen some pretty strange things flying off the "shelves" on Etsy...anytime of year.

Here is a picture of his hat which I don't think he'll keep on...we've been practicing, and have only made it about 20 seconds so far.

I Love Autumn!!!

2009-10-20T08:28:00.005-04:00

Autumn seems to be the shortest season. It is often flanked by lingering hot summer weather and premature snowfall giving the impression that it came and went in 2 or 3 weeks. The younger kids seem to really be into the Halloween part of things and are awaiting the many parties this weekend and trick or treating the following weekend with eager anticipation.

Last weekend we carved pumpkins and indulged in the seasonal apple sugar donuts and fresh apple cider...mmmm. The pumpkins look wonderful, but don't look at me...I just took pictures and cleaned up...Steven and the kids did all the work. On Sunday the weather was beautiful, and I was itching for a long walk. I headed over to Henry Ford Estate with Noah, Oliver, and Linus...camera in hand, and had a great time. Thanks to the late afternoon sun, I got some really lovely pictures.

Etsy Feature ~ Secret Lentil

2009-10-05T14:26:00.008-04:00

Lentils, in any form be it red, green, mini, or secret are my favorite legume. Secret? Oh I could go on trying to be clever, but I'd rather get to the business of talking about Helen, aka Secret Lentil, and all of the perfectly yummy garments she creates that somehow would be more appropriately named after desserts if you ask me. But since nobody is asking, and she comes up with her own very clever names....
Let's just start with the fact that she deconstructs and reconstructs, calling her creatiions "protective gear for your internal revolution". I'm all over it!!!

She doesn't so much sew as she sculpts with fabric. She even uses the word at times when describing the shape of some of her garments, and rightly so. Her ecclectic style includes lots of what she calls "pod pockets" (love 'em), outside serged edges in colorful threads, asymmetrical lines and mix of colors that is rivaled only by a bowl of all my favorite ice creams put together.

Helen works out of her warehouse studio in Syracuse, NY, plays bass guitar, and has a self-proclaimed loud and strange laugh. She just added a dressing room and welcomes visitors who will get first dibs on whatever she has in stock. As I'm in MI, I don't think I'll be visiting soon, but when I do I'll bring her a cake and some coffee, and we'll sew and eat cake and drink coffee all day long...and then I woke up, cuz my kids would wipe their jelly and pizza crusted hands all over everything!

Here are some of my favorites. Let me just say, narrowing it down was no small task.

1. Know Your Carmen Miranda Rights, 2. air-conditioned hepburn, 3. Homage to Dr. Zoidberg, 4. the grass is greener (reconstructed sweater), 5. langoustina, 6. earthenware reconstructed shirt, 7. morning glory dress, 8. Daphne Is No Shrinking Violet

No go and show lentil love. Visit her Etsy store here, her website here, her blog here, her flickr photos here, her Facebook Page here, and if I'm missing anything...shame on me.

Oliver Starts School

2009-09-30T19:08:00.005-04:00

Oliver started pre-school a few weeks ago, and shame on me for waiting 3 weeks to post about such a momentous occasion. We decided on CHUP (Cherry Hill Presbyterian Co-op Preschool). My niece attended 2 years ago and had a wonderful experience AND because it's a co-op it's extremely affordable. With the co-op experience also comes LOTS of parental involvement...that's why it's affordable. So there are days when I have to "work" in one of the rooms, make play-doh, bring snacks etc.. I have also been assigned the task of webmaster for the year.

Here he is on his first day.

I was there with him for the first 2 days as all the moms stay for day 1, and day 2 was my first day as class mom. After his first day alone, I asked how he did and if he was at all nervous to which he answered..."not at all, I was so happy. I was so happy inside it was like there were showers of happiness raining down in my insides, just raining, raining. Well, I guess that says it all.

Our first field trip (there is one every month) was this past Monday. Let me just say that prior to that day, every day, even if chilly in the morning, has warmed up to over 70...I dressed us both accordingly.
I spent 2 hours at the apple orchard getting the "looks" from other moms, dressed for the Iditerod mind you, because my kid is in shorts. Who the heck knew that we'd go from summer to winter overnight? In my defense, he was wearing boots as I knew it would be muddy. Aside ~ the other moms are actually very nice, and just felt bad...that I DIDN'T WATCH THE WEATHER REPORT!
It was worth the frostbite just for the donuts, and we'll be making apple pie later in the week!

And I have to mention that he's becoming quite the arteest. Here is a picture he painted of Steven holding a snake. Why? Because Steven has this thing (obsession...gasp...did I say that?) about looking for snakes every time we go walking or hiking somewhere. The other painting I believe they did with marbles. Lovely, aren't they?

A GaGa Bum Giveaway on TicTacDough

2009-09-29T16:26:00.002-04:00

Visit TicTacDough's blog for a chance to win the Irish Linen tunic.

I Can't Resist...Yep, Another Great Giveaway

2009-09-28T13:42:00.005-04:00

I feel that I've been neglectful of personal and creative posts because I keep finding these great giveaways. This one is posted on Piece of Me, for a Kumquat outfit.

If I win, I'll choose this for Linus.

Another Great Givewaway

2009-09-22T22:16:00.002-04:00

Visit Piece of Me for a chance to enter this fabulous giveaway! Kiwi Industries has lots to offer, and if I win, I think I'll have to have the little organic tee with the blue and red fishies. How about you?

Lisa Leonard Designs Jewelry GUEST GIVEAWAY!!!!

2009-09-22T16:53:00.002-04:00

Lisa Leonard Designs Jewelry GUEST GIVEAWAY!!!!

I am particularly excited about this giveaway found on Grosgrain! I have been in search of something simple to wear on my wedding ring finger. To make a long story short, my wedding band which fits around my engagement ring, lost a baguette on each side causing the ring to cut into my fingers on either side. Since money is tight, it's the last thing on my list of things to spend money on, but I'm not comfortable having a "naked" finger either.

Steven and I went on a date a couple of months ago, and I actually felt self-conscious. It was the middle of the day, we were at the museum, and at a restaurant, he's wearing a ring...I'm not, we were holding hands and kissing. Torrid affair was written all over it! OK, so I have an overactive imagination, but I still want to wear something on my finger, and this simple band would be lovely.

New Design ~ A Holiday Party Dress

2009-09-21T16:53:00.004-04:00

I was busy, busy, busy this weekend. I've had this design in my head for a while and did no more than put pen to paper. Until Steven, while I was away visiting my mother, happen to be at a rummage sale and snatched up 2 bolts of silk for $3.

It's your basic baby-doll style, but instead of the usual zipper or buttons on the back, I've made 4 button-holes through which is laced a beautiful organza ribbon that ties on the top. The bodice is black organic cotton, and the skirt is 100% silk available in the burgundy, as shown, or orange (picture of fabric below). I'll be adding it to the store soon...I have some reorganizing to do first, and it will be available in sizes 12mo, 18mo, 24mo./2T, 3T, 4T, 5T, and 6T.

A Super Crafty Giveaway

2009-09-19T08:05:00.003-04:00

I seem to be a wee bit obsessed with giveaway's lately, but trying to strike a balance between entering and sponsoring a couple of my own. Yesterday I stumbled across this fabulous site which will definately go on my list of places to visit regularly. Frugal Mom, in conjunction with Discount School Supply is having a giveaway for a $50 gift certificate...oh what I could do with that!

UPDATE...I got it wrong. They are giving away a paint set worth $50....sorry for the confusion.

Mmm...Rasberry Jam

2009-09-16T21:36:00.007-04:00

My friend Anita cans everything. She's got shelves in the basement stocked with ball jars full of homemade yummy goodness...from 3 bean salad, to tomato sauce, with lots in between. She was kind enough to invite us all over on Sunday after church to teach me how to make rasberry jam. Steven and Brian kept a watch over the kids (8 between us) while Anita and I were elbow deep in rasberries.

We started with this...a full flat of fresh rasberries

cooked them down to this

then put it all through a sieve to remove the seeds...this was the hard part...and ended up with this

The final result....mmm...and enough for both of our families to last through winter.

CocoaDreams Aprons Gift Card GUEST GIVEAWAY!!!!

2009-09-16T16:39:00.000-04:00

I can't resist another great giveaway! I wish my aprons were as lovely as these.

CocoaDreams Aprons Gift Card GUEST GIVEAWAY!!!!

Etsy Feature ~ The3Maries

2009-09-16T09:16:00.010-04:00

Triple Maries, double the fun...she has 2 Etsy stores! Vintage Treasures from The3Maries has a delightful collection of vintage books, sewing patterns, and other household do-dads. My favorites are this vintage copy of Lassie

and as if that's not enough of a blast from the past, check this out! I have never seen and H.R. Pufnstuf book. As an aside...my 4 year old can sing the song...we've watched it on You Tube.

Here's where the "double" comes in...she has another store too. Created by The3Maries
This store features handmade arts and crafts where she does...and I can't believe I'm saying this..."custom work on sawblades". Yep, she paints lovely pictures on sawblades. I know...I couldn't believe it either, but what the heck!

Here's one of an autumnal nature...

Jennifer together with daughter Mallory, and mother Marie scavenge the flea markets and thrift stores on a regular basis searching for vintage goodies. It sounds heavenly to me, as my flea market and thrift store experiences are always with 2 unruly little boys! She's married to her high school sweetheart, together now for 17years.

When asked to name 3 of her favorite Etsy stores and why, this is what Jennifer had to say:
1) Freckles and Friends - Her creations are adorable. Each little critter is created with love. Cindi is one of the nicest people you will meet!

2)Aunt Sue's Old New Lovely - This lady has an awesome vintage shop! She knows her stuff! Also a very genuine and helpful person.

3)Dutch Touch Beads - Her jewelry is so beautiful!

It's hard to pick just three!

Jennifer is offering a 20% discount if you mention this blog post at checkout. Just say "GaGa Bum".

Simple Shoes

2009-09-11T08:30:00.003-04:00

Simple Shoes
Originally uploaded by sunshine0216

I've been drooling over the shoes on this website since being introduced by my friend Harmony. Everything about their products is eco-friendly, and the bottoms of their sneakers are made from recycled car tires. The kids thought that was the coolest part.
Their prices are fair, but still out of reach for us given our current circumstances, however, they have the most awesome sales. Since Noah is a football fan, he chose these which just arrived yesterday. Shipping was free...yes, free, bringing the total cost to under $10!!!
Peter wants these ones, which are a favorite of mine as well. At full price...it will have to wait. Oh how I hope they go on sale soon!

Etsy Feature ~ Boutique Stitches

2009-09-10T10:05:00.002-04:00

Can you say cool? Jennette from Boutique Stitches is bringing some Punk and Rockabilly to baby's wardrobe. The mother of three, she and her husband own a tattoo shop where she also has her tattoo-themed mom and baby items for sale.
I think this is my favorite...

She's running a promo right now. Anyone who signs up for her newsletter will receive a 5 dollar gift certificate to Boutique Stitches,
20 % OFF all items. Use coupon code BABY at checkout.
Be sure to visit her website, and her blog

I asked Jennett who her favorite Etsy sellers are, and here's what she had to say:

Lucky Kaeru Fabric and Supplies
I love this sellers fabrics!!!!

PunkyMonkeyKids
Have to check out this sellers baby onsies,wow they are amazing!

baby momo
Love these baby items,what great fabrics!

I'm Obsessed with Grosgrain's Giveaways!

2009-09-08T17:20:00.001-04:00

Cna this backpack be any cuter? I love this fabric...I think it's Kokka, but will have to check. How perfect would my little Oliver look carrying this to his first day of preschool? AND there are 2 chances to win. Either the backpack, or the pattern.

Check it out!!

Made by Rae Jackpack Backpack GUEST GIVEAWAY!!!!

7th Grade...Here We Come

2009-09-08T16:44:00.003-04:00

7th Grade...Here We Come
Originally uploaded by sunshine0216

Ok, so the photo is staged. Noah and Peter go to different schools, and Peter would be at his mom's in the morning making him unavailable for photos...so they humored me, and had some fun.
I'm not sure yet how Peter did on his first day, but Noah game home with glowing reviews and shining with optimism about 7th grade. He's made a new friend, Tyler, who I think is in all but one of his classes, and got all the teachers he was hoping to.

6th grade was a difficult transition for both of them for different reasons, so we're all praying that this school year brings less angst, and more joy...for them, and us!

Now where's that glass of wine?

Another Oliver Story (about...you know what)

2009-09-06T17:54:00.003-04:00

So I have a funny story, but have to give a little not-so-funny background information to set the stage.
Some of you know us well enough to know (and those that don't can turn around here, and go back from whence you came if you're grossed out by kids with poop issues)that Oliver is a little anal retentive...really...does not like to go and will avoid it at all cost. Well, I was visiting my mother a few weeks ago, and late one evening wound up in the ER with Oliver who had be writhing in pain saying that his left "hip" hurt (it was really his left lower quadrant). Knowing his...ahem...poopy issues, I was sure that was not the issue as he had gone earlier that day, and the day before. So I was pretty worried having no idea as to what could be causing my little one so much pain.
Here we are...my mother, Linus, me and Oliver walking into the ER at 11:30 at night. By the way...shout out to St. Anthony's Medical Center for getting us in and out so quickly. After an x-ray...sure enough...his poor belly was chuck-full of poo. Got a quick drink of sodium bicarbonate and off we went. The whole episode turned Oliver's life around, and I'm happy to say, he goes every morning after breakfast like a little trooper. Heee, hee...I could go off here, but I'll refrain.
Fast forward to Friday. We stopped at McDonald's on the way to my in-laws. Mostly because I had to make a pitstop, but with a car full of boys yelling, "yeah McDonald's...can we get shakes...I want a toy...fy, fy"...that last bit was Linus asking for "fries"...well what are we to do. I was peacefully eating my own fries when suddenly Oliver leaps out of the play structure and yells across the restaurant, "Mom, I didn't do my morning poop. It started, but hasn't hit my underwear yet!" So after turning a whole new shade of red (I'll have to call Crayola), we took care of business, and while washing his hands (in a full restroom) says "I can't believe I forgot about my morning poop...how silly of me".
Yes, silly indeed...this is my life!

Kookles Nursing Cover GUEST GIVEAWAY!!!!

2009-09-03T22:07:00.001-04:00

Kookles Nursing Cover GUEST GIVEAWAY!!!!

Sew Cute Shop Amy Butler Birdie Sling GUEST GIVEAWAY!!!!

2009-09-01T19:40:00.001-04:00

Sew Cute Shop Amy Butler Birdie Sling GUEST GIVEAWAY!!!!

Giveaway Extravaganza!

2009-08-31T16:25:00.004-04:00

Woohoo...I'm going to be featured on 2 blogs, and there will be a giveaway!!
First one will be tomorrow on Grosgrain. This will be the item from my shop...so if you're got a little one, or in need of a baby shower gift...enter to win.
She's got some other fabulous giveaways going on too. I am particularly fond of this little number. Cute huh? Go to her blog and enter to win.

The other feature and giveaway will be on October 16th at TicTacDough
She'll be offering the Irish Linen Top/Dress.
I've had this one for a while, and will be so happy that someone will finally be wearing it.

Be sure to visit these wonderful blogs and browse, browse, browse!!!

Recap of Summer Events

2009-08-26T18:35:00.014-04:00

Had I posted once a week or so, I wouldn't feel overwhelmed at the prospect of cramming most of the summer into one post. That's me...the picture next to the definition of "procrastinator" in the dictionary. In my defense, I did start a post last month covering part of the summer...thought I saved a draft, but NO. Surely I was distracted by some little imp needing a diaper change, a drink of something, a snack, or the oh so distinctive sound of the kitchen garbage can being overturned. That being said...here goes...and it's going to be quick...more pictures, less words.

Summer started with a trip to Rockford, IL to visit family. We have a membership to the Detroit Science Center which gained us access to many other museums. Our kids went to LOTS of museums this summer.

~Burpee Museum of Natural History, Rockford, IL~

~Discovery Center Museum, Rockford, IL~

~Field Museum, Chicago, IL~

~Nature Preserve (across the street from my mother's house), Loves Park, IL~
These are by far some of my favorite photos of the summer.

~Detroit Science Center~
Just me and Noah before he left to spend the summer in NJ with Larry.

~Lots of play time with cousins and friends~

Said goodbye to an old friend....

...and hello to a new one (new to us anyway).

~Kensington Metro Park~
...we were there quite a bit

Ok, so there's quite a bit more...but I'm just going to have to do it in 2 posts (or more).

While the Boys Were Away....

2009-08-24T14:33:00.002-04:00

boys room curtains
Originally uploaded by sunshine0216

Without the older boys underfoot, I had the opportunity to get in their bedroom and give a good cleaning, and a bit of a facelift. The batik curtains I made a few years ago when I made the bedspreads, but I always thought the basic tie-back with ruffle top looked too feminine. Plus when making them, I ran out of fabric and had a curainless window (to the left of the bed), as I could never find the same fabric. So I took the 4 panels of fabric that I did have, and created an updated look by hanging them above the old rod pocket, eliminating the ruffle top, and using the tie-backs to give a shade effect, securing them with groovy green buttons.

I still love the bedspreads I made a few years ago, but having become a more seasoned sewer since then, I notice all the flaws. The photo doesn't do the fabric justice...it's a stretchy, "hairy" verigated fabric that I backed with some cozy fleece. The texture is really cool, and reminds me of the fur on Sully from Monsters, Inc. Peter has Asperger's and just loves things with texture, fringe, hair, etc. Notice the tie-die pillowcases to match.

They already have a lava lamp, so I'm hoping to run across a bean bag on Craigslist or Freecycle to toss in a spot I've cleared for that very thing.

Oliver Has a Bad Dream

2009-08-11T21:51:00.002-04:00

Oliver was awake for over an hour in the middle of the night over a bad dream. When I asked him about it this morning, he said that he was alone in the woods, and that he heard a loud noise that was St. Michael. He spoke about it on and off all day, and kept questioning why St. Michael would make such a loud noise. At one point he asked me, "Does St. Michael kill the devil before he casts him into hell?"

Out of the mouths of babes! Ultimately, he told me he wasn't so much scared as he was startled by the noise. When I asked why he thought it was St. Michael, he didn't know why...just knew it was. I explained that he was there as a protector, and that if he sees him again, to say hi, and ask him to be more quiet.

After all that, I thought for sure he may have a hard time going to sleep tonight. He didn't want to seem to be alone in his room after his shower, and made me close his closet door. We had a long snuggle, and I left, but he asked me to leave the light on which we haven't had to do in over a month.

Goodnight my sweet boy.

In the Kitchen

2009-08-10T22:54:00.002-04:00

I miss "boardwalk" lemonade. This came pretty close...mmmmm.

I had a few bananas that just weren't getting eaten, and jumped at the opportunity to make some banana bread...and throw in some chocolate chips...just because.

Birthday Gift for Harmony

2009-07-30T15:37:00.004-04:00

It started out as an order, but with her birthday somewhere around here (she keeps it a secret), I'm just going to gift it to her.
Her request was for a swimsuit cover - up like this one. on Etsy. I thought it would be easiest to start with a t-shirt, and pulled this together in no time.
I definately see more of these coming up in the near future.

Oh Stop! Don't!

2009-07-30T13:44:00.003-04:00

Recently, for the first time, I had a customer send me a shirt out of her husband's closet and asked me to make a dress for her daughter. I took pictures of the shirt, and had intended to use the process to create a tutorial as well. Umm...as you can see, there has been no tutorial, and not even any finished pictures of the dress. I was nervous as heck, because this particular design has a fitted bodice, and despite careful measuring, my finished product turned out narrower than I had promised. I held my breath for days after mailing, waiting for a request for a refund...I was sure it was coming. To my delight, the dress fit Hope perfectly, and my customer Karen left me feedback that I just can't help but share.

A little conceited? Hell, yes, but I'm going to post it anyway.

Love it! Love it! Love it! You did a wonderful job making my husband's shirt into a cute sundress. Every seam is finished to perfection! I love the rickrack you added for a perfect touch! This is soooooo adorable that I don't want my daughter to wear (I want keep for my daughter's daughter!) Thanks for creating something so perfect!

And Speaking of Vacation Bible School...

2009-07-29T22:41:00.003-04:00

Oliver gushes and gushes about how much he loved going to vacation bible school across the street from Grandma's house, but he didn't really share details until today. Tonight, this was our conversation over dinner.
Oliver: Heaven is way up in the sky...in the desert.
Mom: Well, the desert is here on earth.
Oliver: Well, God is in the desert. You can't even touch the desert because it's like, far away, it's like feeling nothing. And in the desert they use record players instead of tv's, because they didn't have tv's that long ago.
Mom: What else did you learn.
Oliver: Teacher taught us about Moses, Jesus, and the Pharoh. When we went to bible bayou, we had a hunt, and we pretended the people were wild creatures. That was so funny, it freaked me out. But it was just pretend...it was fantastic. We got to make our own hats.

Then he said he was done with dinner, that he didn't care for my meatballs, and could he have a popsicle.

That's all I have to say about that!

Deconstruction / Reconstruction

2009-07-29T17:16:00.005-04:00

A few days ago I posted of a thrift store find that I was to transform into a shoulder tie tunic for myslef. Of course, being a creative creature, once I started cutting, I yearned to try something different. I kind of regret it, but have learned a few things along the way.
First I started searching for inspiration, and what better place to search than through the millions of creative blogs that are out there. First I stumbled across Jezze who even had a tutorial!

Aside ~ As someone who has been sewing for less than 2 years, I'm all about the tutorials. Just when I think I know how to do something, I look for a tutorial and find what is usually a better way...ok, the right way.

So she inspired me to keep the shirt whole on top and make pleats at the neckline. I kind of followed her method of sizing the shirt, but this shirt was huge...I think a 3 or 4X. My shirt, unlike hers, had a pleat in the back as many men's shirts do. I just enclosed that pleat in a larger inverted pleat. Once I got that done, I trimmed the necline to sit where I wanted it to, and started pleating and pinning the front. I hacked the sleeves up and made bias to bind the neckline, and was very pleased with that part of the project. The back is another story.

Once I thought I was done, I hated the fit. I mean, I am trying to hide the extra 70 pounds I don't need, but I didn't want it to look like a maternity shirt. Darts? Yea, right...I've only done darts once, and it was a project where I actually used a pattern. If I hadn't already cut the sleeves and put elastic in, I would bring the sides in. I started by adding 2 strips in the back to hold the pleats down (there is probably a technical ter m for this, but I haven't a clue). It helps with how the shirt lays in the back, but I still think it's too bulky.

Shorten it, belt it...maybe just start all over and do what I was going to in the beginning? Don't know, but will show pictures of it on when I feel like I'm not modeling for the Motherhood maternity store.

Is He a Lefty or Righty?

2009-07-28T14:35:00.003-04:00

Oliver has always used his right hand for writing, coloring, eating, etc. Over the weekend, we noticed that when playing baseball, he bats like a lefty. Then today, while doing some phonics lessons I noticed that he uses his the mouse pad with his left hand as well. Maybe we have a true ambidextron (is that a word?) on our hands

Oliver doing phonics
Originally uploaded by sunshine0216

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On another note, Oliver spent 5 days at my mother in laws going to vacation bible school. I wasn't sure he'd last more than 1 night, but we literally had to drag mister little independence home. He had a wonderful time, learned lots of bible stories, and made me this lovely bottle-cap bracelet which I'm wearing right this minute. Look at all the colors....it goes with just about anything!

Downtown Detroit Waterfront

2009-07-27T22:54:00.003-04:00

We have a lovely waterfront area in Detroit, and love to take the kids down there, and have a blast every time we do. We parked close, and didn't NEED to take the people mover (Detroit's elevated train), but with 2 kids who love trains...we took a lap around the city anyway.

Thrift Store Finds

2009-07-21T14:41:00.005-04:00

Thrift Store Finds
Originally uploaded by sunshine0216

For ages I have wanted the America's Test Kitchen Cookbook. I love the show, and they've just perfected a lot of the classics. Well since it's like fifty bucks, it's out of the question. I did however, find this little gem at my favorite thrift store today. The author? Christopher Kimball from America's Test Kitchen.
And aside from having to clean off someone elses floured fingerprints, and smears of unknown foods, it's in perfect condition. Certainly the best $2 I've spent...well...this week anyway.

Thrift Store Finds
Originally uploaded by sunshine0216

This buttery soft Ralph Lauren shirt is going to be mine, mine, mine. I love the print...it reminds me of the upholstery on a chair that my grandmother had when I was little. Finally....one of those shoulder tie tunics for myslef!

Ooo...Ooo That Smell

2009-07-18T22:08:00.002-04:00

So the genius that built our house in 1932 thought that it was a brilliant idea to put a "laundry" chute in on of the bedrooms that's 12" wide, and 4" deep. Now, I'm not sure, but I think laundry in 1932, was pretty much the same, bulk-wise, as it is now. And if that is indeed the case, maybe they just thought it would be good for socks and pantyhose and such. Frankly, I don't think that they were "thinking" at all.
The chute has been clogged since Steven bought the house. I think it's safe to say it's probably been clogged since little Bobby threw his size 8 dungarees down there in 1932. (Were there dungarees in 1932?) Anyway, I've spied Steven, on at least 3 occassions trying to unclog the clog all to no avail. I don't want the thing unclogged...it's dysfunctional and serves no purpose.
Can you see from the title of my post where this is going? Um....yea.
There's been a bit of a stink in that room lately, which by the way is Oliver's and Linus' room, and I've had the hardest time finding it. I was beginning to think something died in the attic. Today....I open the little door to the chute, and woohoo...there it was.
So I call Oliver upstairs and calmly ask:
Me: Oliver, have you been throwing anything down there?
Oliver: Yep, my pull-ups.
Me: How many times?
Oliver: oh...3 or 4
That's all, I don't think I need to say anymore. Good night.

Funnies

2009-07-17T22:08:00.002-04:00

While visiting the farm at Kensington, Oliver says, "that cow is a girl". Having just been to a dairy farm last weekend and having a discussion about teets, I was curious to see where this was going.
Me: Really, how do you know its a girl?
Oliver: Those things, the bumps.
Me: Do you remember what they're called?
Oliver: Pimbles

I truly wish I had some sort of mental notepad. He said so many things today that in the moment I swore I would remember to write down, but alas, my aging brain fails me again.

The Places They Pee

2009-07-13T20:12:00.002-04:00

I don't know if it's all boys (Noah certainly didn't do this type of thing), but Oliver pees in the most unlikely places. For example, he just came up to me to tell me "sorry mom, but I just peed in the drawer of my train table...may I have a popsicle please?"

Slowly But Surely

2009-07-13T20:01:00.003-04:00

You know how it's difficult to sit and relax in a room that's chaotic or messy? I've discovered that *that* is the reason I've not been blogging. I'm not happy with the layout, it's missing something, or there's too much of something else...it just doesn't scream "Jill". I've been searching for new "skins", and trying things out on my own, but it's time consuming as I stink at Html.

So now that I've resigned myself to an excuse, please excuse me while I'm under construction. Any advice or feedback is certainly welcome...keeping in mind that It's all a work in progress.

A Giveaway, A Giveaway!!!

2009-07-11T08:38:00.003-04:00

Oh, how I love this jacket, and I'm entering the giveaway for the pattern from Make It Perfect.
Can't you just see Oliver and Linus in matching ones this fall??

Our High-Tech Height Chart

2009-06-10T08:54:00.002-04:00

Noah kept insisting that he was as tall as I am. So to settle the matter, we headed into the kitchen to the door jam that doesn't lie. First me...5'3 1/2? When did I loose an inch? Ok, so maybe I always lifted my heels up just a bit at the Dr.'s office...I'm comin' clean.
Then Noah...5'3 3/8....when did THAT happen?

A Day to Blog About

2009-06-08T19:04:00.006-04:00

Oh, I admit it...I haven't been blogging nearly as much as I used to...I need to feel inspired. Well, today has most certainly been one of those days that inspires...hmm...is that the right word? I guess if you have a blank canvas, speckle with BBQ sauce, smear with Comet, sprinkle on some salt, grab a bag of grass, mud and a rock and stick that somewhere, hold it ("it" being the canvas)under a downspout during a rain storm, sprinkle (no, remove cap and dump) more salt...well you get the picture...ba dum bump....get it...picture?...canvas??

Oh, I need a martini! Is it bedtime yet?

Here we go...one at a time.
Noah...pretty non-descript day until Steven found one of his latest works of art. Geez...are all tween boys as obsessed with...um...well, I know they're at the age where they're curious. Let me tell you...we're on top of it though.

~Aside~ Just glanced out the window and spotted Oliver running across the back yard carrying shovels full of dirt back and forth. Forth to where and for what? Do I really want to know...naaa...just keep typing Jill. And I'm also going to ignore what Linus is doing in the kitchen. I can tell it involves the heap of plastic shopping bags...yes, I know they're NOT toys, children can suffocate, yadda, yadda. As long as I still hear them rustling he's ok...breathing at least.

So we're on top of it...yes! We have responsible, mature discussions...they come and ask questions...we do more than give them anatomical, medical terminology and send them on their way...we do...we do. The picture was hideous, and I don't just mean artistically. I can take that, just give me an apology, say you won't do it again...is that too much to ask? Evidentally, yes! He proceeds to blame it on Peter, who's right next to him, and is quick to disagree. Uhh...we know the difference in their writing and their drawing. Asking who did it was STRICTLTY a formality. Finally Noah says that "maybe" he did draw it, but can't remember. Are we stupid? Enough!

Peter immediately jumps in as the "good son" as soon as Noah is sent to his room. After dinner, volunteered to help clean up, asked if there was anything he could do for me. Hey...I'm no fool...I put him to work, but was easy on him. He watched Linus for me while I got the dishes done. No easy task really, because Linus is a monster.

Noah and Peter...what they need is a break. I'm glad school will be out this week...the mood always changes here during the summer.

Oliver...what to say about him. Well, he's our little composer, and quite the lyricist. His songs generally revolve around the theme "I want my baby back in my heartland"....whatever that means, and they're filled with all kinds of mouthed sound effects very reminiscent of my brother Chris who also had a talent for creative sounds (I'm being kind here). Almost everything out of his mouth is hysterical, because he mimics that tween drama that overshadows everything Noah and Peter say. "Mom, I soooo want to go to the park today". Umm...how old are you?

As for Linus...I lost count as to how many times a week he gets a bloody lip, and a couple of weeks ago he chipped a front tooth and now has a nice space. He's fast, and I'm pretty sure he's chanelling Houdini or Jack Jack (the baby from the Incredibles), because I can turn around, and he'll be hanging from the ceiling fan in the blink of an eye. Laughing about it too...not at all frightened. No fear this one, no fear. While we're hoping to get a priest out of the gang, he's more of a Navy Seal or something...maybe a tightrope walker, or one of those guys who climbs to the top of suspension bridges to do repairs...I could speculate all night.

There's a glass of wine and a popsicle calling my name. Oh shut up, I know they don't go together, but I refuse to do either or.

Comfort In the the Words of Al Kresta

2009-06-01T11:25:00.004-04:00

I have been so disturbed and upset by the murder of abortionist George Tiller and the subsequent backlash on the pro-life community. A short while ago I received this email and want to share.

Leading Abortionist Murdered
May 31, 2009
Al Kresta

Years ago, I debated the defrocked and excommunicated Presbyterian pastor Paul Hill (1954-2003) over the question of whether or not killing abortionists was justifiable homicide. In short, I argued “Absolutely not.” He argued that he was obligated to protect the unborn by killing their murderers and thus preventing further abortions.

Paul Hill wasn’t insane or even “mean.” Rather he was in the grip of an abbreviated logic. He reasoned that since abortionists kill children then by killing abortionists we will save children.

As a moral theologian and pastor, Hill was wrong and convinced almost nobody. When it was clear that pro-life people dismissed his argument as grossly inconsistent with the moral law, he went out and killed an abortionist and his escort and wounded the abortionist’s wife. Paul Hill was arrested, convicted and, in September 2003, executed for their murder. He never publicly repented and perished in his folly imagining himself a martyr and leader: “While most Christians firmly profess the duty to defend born children with force…most of these professors have neglected the duty to similarly defend the unborn…I was certain that if I took my stand at this point, others would join with me, and the Lord would eventually bring about a great victory.” As an activist and prophet, he was also dead wrong.

He failed to see two obvious truths:
- There are many non-violent ways to stop abortions.
- Every act of abortion has multiple accomplices. Each accomplice bears differing degrees of culpability. Why should Hill’s logic stop at the abortionist and not with others who make his work possible including local law enforcement that protects clinics?

How about the one person most obviously standing between the abortionist and the preborn: the mother. Mothers call for abortions. Tiller provided them a service for a fee. As long as mothers want to get rid of a pregnancy, there will be abortions. As long as men want sex without relationships, there will be prostitutes. Both advocates for abortion and prostitution are willing to take the cash and call it empowerment for women. This doesn’t mean the law should permit either abortion or prostitution. It does recognize that we won’t get rid of depersonalized sex by killing prostitutes and we won’t end abortion by eliminating abortionists.

Absurdity as well as tragedy stain his position. Yes, abortion is a form of child-murder. But it is murder carried out with the consent of the mother uninformed as she may be. Hill, to be consistent, should have advocated the use of proportionate force to stop abortions. Following his twisted logic, he should have forcibly stopped mothers from entering clinics and, when persuasion finally failed, anesthetized her and removed the innocent child by C-section. After all, isn’t this a more justifiable use of force? Nobody gets killed. Of course, this is morally repulsive.

Killing abortionists doesn’t save lives. It takes lives. It is murder. It usurps the authority of the state by pretending to mete out justice to evildoers. It is vigilantism and diminishes respect for the rule of law.

If the moral arguments aren’t clear then the public relations argument should be. While the law needn’t permit mothers to kill their children, neither is the law enough to make mothers want to avoid abortion. For that, it is necessary to turn the heart of the mother toward her child. Paul Hill turned hearts in the wrong direction. He created unnecessary sympathy for the pro-abortion regime.

In all likelihood Tiller’s killer has not prevented the death of children. More likely, he has further hardened America ’s heart against the unborn (who people can’t see) by generating sympathy for abortionists (who people can see). His act distorts the truth because it shows blood on the wrong hands. Good heavens, he was shot to death ushering in his church. Absurd.

As Fr. Pavone has written: “At this point, we do not know the motives of this act, or who is behind it, whether an angry post- abortive man or woman, or a misguided activist, or an enemy within the abortion industry, or a political enemy frustrated with the way Tiller has escaped prosecution. We should not jump to conclusions or rush to judgment.” I agree. Regardless of motive, however, Tiller’s death is an unjustifiable act of murder. His widow is bereft. His soul needs our prayers for the mercy he thought he was showing mothers but denying to their children. Tiller had mugs inscribed with the motto: “Trust women.” As an active churchgoer, it should have been “Trust God.”

Giveaway on Simple Finds!

2009-05-05T12:54:00.000-04:00

Simple Finds is having a great giveway for this incredible, very eco-friendly floor/carpet tiles. Come on over and enter to win.

Meet My New Mantra

2009-05-05T09:38:00.000-04:00

Green Street Fair 1
Originally uploaded by sunshine0216

I WON"T get discouraged, I WON"T get discouraged, I WON"T, I WON"T, I WON"Tt get discouraged.

If someone had told me that I wouldn't sell one item at the Green Street Fair, I wouldn't have believed them. And that, my friends is exactly what happened. I thought it was the perfect venue to enter the street fair scene...my line of clothing is all about "green".

My heart just sinks when I think of all the preparation I put into this. I had planned to concentrate on some small, low-priced items during the last couple of days before the fair, and then we had a death in the family. My husband's grandfather died (RIP, Walter L. Andrews), and of course, our family focus had to change a bit. Despite my sister coming from IL to help me for the weekend, those last few days before the fair were a complete loss creatively. Since the funeral was on Saturday (yes, I managed to do both), my husband, having all the kids with him, would need the van. My display possibilities were limited to whatever I could fit in a Chevy Aveo.

My sister and I headed out early with what little we had, set everything up, and just as the fair started I left to go to the funeral. God bless my husband who was supportive of my endeavor, let me leave after the Mass and skip the cemetery and subsequent reception so that I can return to the fair.

The weather was beautiful, and the crowd was friendly and very receptive to my ideas. My designs created quite a buzz...people were gathering and ooh'ing and aahh'ing. I handed out a lot of business cards, and hope that at the very least, it will increase the traffic to my store.

So....do I attempt another? Do I keep things online? I haven't committed to any others yet, but will check out the Grosse Pointe Park Farmer's Market a week from Saturday. A friend who lives there thinks that I'd be a big hit.

Time to give my kids and husband more than 5 minutes of my time, get my house in order (which was thoroghly ignored for 3 weeks), plant my garden, and enjoy my Mother's Day weekend. Next week I will prepare to give it another go.

About That Mullet

2009-04-23T11:12:00.007-04:00

Disclaimer ~ Just for fun, not meant to be uncharitable!
What does your child's haircut say about you? Does it say anything? Is it relative to who you are, what kind of parent you are, your own likes or dislikes? Does it scream champagne and caviar, or Budweiser and boxed mac and cheese?

Ah...thoughts inspired by a trip to McDonald's for lunch...one with a Playplace. It is the 3rd dreary, rainy day in a row, it's spring break, and we went at noon...you do the math. Alas, the subjects for this study were plentiful.

What inspired me was the boy with the mullet. I don't see too many of those anymore, but we were at a McDonald's kind of bordering the "downriver" area of Metro Detroit, so anything goes. Now, the mullet carries with it a stigmatism of sorts, does it not? Yet parents willingly cut their child's hair this way.

If you are from Mars, or didn't live through the 80's and so are not familiar with the mullet, see below.

As I sat pondering all of this ~ while trying to keep an eye and ear out for my own children ~ I scanned the room discretly, in an attempt to identify the mother of the mullet-child. I honed into my alter ego as a socialogist, and was sure I had her spotted. She was a quasi-attractive woman in her late 30's, early 40's who had shoulder-length hair "feathered" on the sides, wearing stone-washed jeans neatly tucked into her slouch socks.

Just then...they mullet-child yelled out "mommy", and ran to another woman. Gasp! I was wrong! The mullet-child mommy was not the woman in the Van Halen concert t-shirt. In fact, she looked like a "TV" mom. Very pretty, put-together, well-dressed in current yet understated clothing...hmm. I bet if I followed her outside she'd get into one of those trendy cross-over vehicles with a GPS, built in DVD player in the back, and despite having 3 other children it is spotless...no cherrios on HER floors.

Feeling somewhat defeated, it was time to round up my kids and leave before I look around and find someone studying ME! Who, by the way was looking very Bohemian in a long crinkle skirt, clogs, tousled hair, and a baby with blond curly hair so long that everyone thinks he's a girl...so who's look needs an update? Just then, in walks a family with 2 boys who were about 4 and 7. Don't you know...they both had on black acid-washed jeans, camoflage jackets, and drumroll........matching mohawks!

Off to get Linus a haircut...well maybe tomorrow.

I Swear I Posted Pictures of Easter

2009-04-21T21:48:00.002-04:00

I've been so busy, and despite my last post, I'm no more organized now than I was then. First...family. We had a blessed Easter, and spent the weekend at my mother-in-laws. We left Noah and Peter there to spend their spring break with the understanding that "what happens at Grandma's, stays at Grandma's". The children looked great dspite only one of them being in handmade garb...shame on me.

In case you can't tell, Oliver is the one who got the handmade outfit. I was uber happy with the final result, but getting there was ALL drama. I blogged about it at Covered Button Cabaret if you care to read the saga. He looked unbelievably cute!

And what would Easter be without an egg hunt?
This is what happens when you leave the hiding to two 11 year-olds.

I think we tried to get Violet in this one too, but she wasn't cooperating. Peter and Noah look as if they're nursing a chocolate hangover and it's only 2pm.

We certainly had the best weather we've had on Easter for as long as I can remember. Spring was everywhere.

And adding this one just because it's sooo cute!

The Mother Load

2009-04-20T15:41:00.000-04:00

the mother load
Originally uploaded by sunshine0216

After 15 minutes and $14, I left the thrift store with the greatest finds. The men of Detroit know how to dress, and I'm reaping the benefits of their good taste. Ralph Lauren, Phat Farm, Pierre Cardin, TailorByrd....yummy!

Time to dive into deconstruction/reconstruction.

Pattern Alterations by a Novice

2009-04-13T10:03:00.000-04:00

I love Ottobre! Unfortunately, I only have 1 issue, 1/2008, but find ways to use the heck out of it. Believe it or not, this Easter outfit I made for my 4 year-old started as the "Ladybug Vest" and "Candy Pants" from that issue. I'm trying to be REALLY frugal, so rather than buying a pattern I decided to make things up as I went along. Sometimes this works for me....sometimes it comes back and bites me in the ass.

Originally I wanted knickers and a vest, but the only knicker pants in this issue call for a zipper. I was afraid that having not mastered zipping and buttoning quickly...he may have(potty)accidents. And since this is intended as an Easter outfit, we do what we must to avoid such accidents.

Anyhow...I thought the ties and gathering at the bottom were girly, so I made leg cuffs and took 3 tucks on the outside of the leg on both the front and back. I had to deconstruct and reconstruct this once because I had the tucks on one leg going in the same direction as the other leg as opposed to both tucking toward the outside. I added pockets (Oliver LOVED these)and cut the fabric on the bias just to add some contrast.

I used the "Ladybug Vest" pattern size 110, and altered the bejeezes out of it. First, I squared the front, and omitted the trim panels. I was just going to leave the neckline rounded, and do buttons on the front until my husband asked me to add lapels. I indulged him why? Since I already had it put together, I wasn't sure what to do about having to add facing. I put it down and traced, cut, overstitched the edges (I REALLY need a serger), and can't believe that it worked. I was seriously stunned! It's FAR from perfect, but unless I go around showing the inside...who's going to know? After all of that, it was too wide. I had to make the shoulders more narrow, and take the sides in. Then it was a little too narrow, and it made the pants poof out below the vest giving a reverse mushroom look. Shortened the length, moved the buttons over a little, and done.

Ultimately, he looked adorable. I loved the way the pants fit him and I can tell he enjoyed wearing it...egg hunt, climbing trees, to the park...obviously comfy and durable.

The lesson here? Splurge and buy a pattern.

Craving a Routine

2009-03-31T15:12:00.005-04:00

My friend Lee posted a link to Simplemom.net and this post regarding routine. How providential!! I have been craving some sort of routine with the kids lately. When I was first laid off in August, I put off structuring my day thinking I'd be getting a new job quickly, so why bother? Now, it's to the point where I am overwhelmed with the amount of time I have during the day, and the number of tasks that I have to do. There are days when I know that the kids have watched *way* too much TV. It's PBS, but still TV. Shame, shame...they're watching SUPER Y as we *speak*.

One of my challenges is the age difference between Oliver and Linus. Oliver no longer takes naps, and Linus will take 1 sometimes 2, and they are rarely more than 30 to 45 minutes. He would sleep for over an hour if I slept with him on my chest...but who has time for that? Ok, I do indulge sometimes and nap with him. Oliver and I like to do craft projects, which are virtually impossible with a 19 month old hanging around. Linus is into everything, and will eat anything in his path. Having scissors, paints etc. out while he is awake is out of the question!

Sometimes it is 2:00 before I realize I haven't fed the kids lunch yet. My only excuse...Oliver usually tells me when he's hungry. Throw into the mix that on days when Steven works evenings, I feel less obligated to prepare a formal dinner. It's often soup, sandwiches, etc.

So I'm off to scour Tsh's blog and hope that therein lies the secret to getting it all together. I'm good with lists...I should start there...lists are good!

Oh my gosh...she has downloads here. How cool!!!

Processes....Ugh!

2009-03-27T21:53:00.000-04:00

Easter clothing process 2
Originally uploaded by sunshine0216

As much as I enjoy sewing, I just despise some parts of the process. Tracing and cutting out patterns is right up there. Ironing runs a close second...although I've learned that my finished product is far better if I iron when (during construction) I'm supposed to.

This project will be the death of me...oh yes, the drama of it all! Matching Easter outfits for my 4 year-old, and my 19 mo. old. Since I'm broke, new patterns are out of the question, so I got out the only issue of Ottobre that I own.
Hint ~ a subscription to this magazine is a WONDERFUL gift idea for me, and can be found at The Wooley Thread (women's and kids issues pretty please).

"It's just going to be a couple of pairs of knickers and vests" is all I said. Then, realizing that Ottobre made the patterns for one kids size and not the other. This means modifications, and I'm too much of a novice to think that I can modify an Ottobre pattern. Look at those pattern sheets...look!

Well, I'll stop whining now, and update when I've made some progress. My goal is to have all the fabric cut by the end of the weekend so that I can begin to sew on Monday. I swear...someday I'm going to teach my husband how to trace and cut patterns AND cut out the fabric. What do you think of that?

Just Jack

2009-03-16T10:10:00.003-04:00

Am I Crazy, or What?

2009-03-15T15:06:00.002-04:00

You wouldn't believe the noises I'm listening to as I sit here. Banging, scratching, thumping, dragging...what's above me you ask? The bedroom of our two 11 year-olds. It's not often that I venture much further than their doorway...it's too scary. I'ts like entering into an Edgar Allen Poe story...you're not sure what's going to be there when you open a drawer, pick up a sock, take off the sheets, and have I mentioned the smell?

So yesterday, I said my Hail Mary and took the plunge. Made the beds, straightened up a bit. These ARE things they are supposed to be doing on a daily basis. I don't want you all thinking that I don't hold them accountable, or give them chores, because I do, OH, I DO! Ask them, "does your mom give you chores"? The evil mother/step-mother/witch villanesses in the Disney movies pale in comparison to the desription of me that you would get from them.

The current commotion is them trying to get their mattresses back on their bunkbeds. They took the mattresses off the beds so they could sleep on the floor last night. Why? Someone please tell me why? Now, you moms who have bunkbeds somewhere in the house KNOW my issue...feel my PAIN. Bunkbeds are SO hard to make, and it takes so long to do...it's certainly comperable to 30 minutes on the stair-master (if not longer).

As if that's not enough, I was just handed an essay (our current punishment of choice) that I'm sure one helped the other write....(oh excuse me, Linus has a knife)...ok, I'm back, where was I? Oh yes, the essay. Oh forget it...it's Sunday...I'm going to check on the Corned beef and cabbage that I have slow cooking, and have a beer.

Thinking Spring but Sewing Flannel?

2009-03-14T14:01:00.003-04:00

My little Linus pulled this fabric off the shelf at Joanne...he just loves elephants, and I couldn't possibly use letters to duplicate the sound he makes to say "elephant". I had some of the Michael Miller "leaf" organic cotton in my stash and loved the two together. A little bit of applique on a upcycled tee from Wal-Mart, and voila!

I has a bit of the "nails on the chalkbord" feel to buying flannel when I am so despeerately awaiting the arrival of spring, but what the heck. He'll wear the leaf cotton on the inside most of the time and that will keep him cool when the weather starts to change...right? Tell me I'm right...please...somebody?

Muntedkowhai Necklace GUEST GIVEAWAY!!!!

2009-03-13T16:11:00.000-04:00

Muntedkowhai%Necklace GUEST GIVEAWAY!!!!

I stumbled upon this blog and can't get enough of her things; so very unique without being too far out. If it weren't a Friday in Lent, I'd pour a glass of wine and drool over her store, blog and photos for an hour or so. Kathleen Dougherty...I want to be you're new best friend!

Happy 4th Birthday Oliver

2009-03-08T19:17:00.004-04:00

My little Oliver turned 4 yesterday. As he sat in my lap and snuggled early in the morning, I attempted to tell him the story of his birth...he wasn't very interested. He WAS interested however, in discussing the days events which couldn't begin soon enough for him...or me. I couldn't wait to see the look on his face when he saw his new bike!

Before presents was a trip to The Henry Ford...it's all about the trains. With us came Grandpa Wally, Uncle Bill, Aunt Julie, Violet, and of course Lydia.
Aside ~ Julie told me that Lydia was up at 6 waking them up saying "do you know what today is"? She was just as excied about Oliver's birthday as he was (maybe even more).
So our first stop was the Weinermobile Cafe at the museum for lunch where we dined on....you guessed it...weiners! Anything you can imagine (and some you can't) putting on a hotdog...they've got it. Then it was off to the trains where Oliver can tell you just about everything you want to know about the Allegheny.

Home for presents and cake which surprisingly, was *not* a train this year. He asked for a dinosaur cake which conveniently I already had a mold for.
Funny thing though. When Oliver saw me decorating the cake he got really upset...crying and everything...because the dinosaur was smiling. He said he wanted the dinousaur to be roaring, bearing his teeth and claws. You know, the more that your kids know you are capable of, the more they come to expect from you.

Sneak Peek of Spring

2009-03-06T21:55:00.003-05:00

100_4960, originally uploaded by sunshine0216.

Today brought a warm breeze and sunshine at a time when I was beginning to feel like winter would never end. How marvelous it was to get outside with the kids and go to the park...we could have stayed all day, but with tomorrow being Oliver's birthday, there were preparations to tend to.

Today was also Oliver's first visit to the dentist. I was so touched at how Dr. Weiss' assistant showed him each instrument, explained what they were for, and let him touch them. She instructed him as to how to use the "suction thing"...give me a break, it's late and I can't come up with anything more technical sounding than that. In any case, he was a trooper, and model patient. His teeth are in fine shape, and it was determined based on the x-ray, that he is going to have my rather large front teeth...poor thing. The tech made it a point to tell me that they should look just fine on a man. Ummm....hello?

Blog Clog!

2009-02-27T22:08:00.003-05:00

I began blogging to put down into words and pictures those moments in life that I didn't want to forget, or wanted to share with loved ones who can't see the smiling faces of my 4 angels on a daily basis. Sometimes *in* the moment I swear I don't want to remember, but secretly know (or hope) that next week, or 20 years from now I may just see the humor in the catastrophe du jour.

Although sewing and crafting has become a big part of my life, it has stifled my inner writer...my Jane Austin, my Emily Bronte. Oh shut up! I'm not delusional, just hopeful. Steven is *really* the writer in the family and the one that could really do all these memories justice, but he insists that his forte is the short story...creepy, scary, short stories.

But I digress. My point is, that I'm going to start another blog...yes, you heard me...another blog. Where will I get the time you say? What will become of "SERENITY NOW"? Well, to answer your first question, that 5 minutes between flossing my teeth and wiping the sleep out of my eyes is just SCREAMING to be filled with some meaningful, life altering task. And to answer your second question, nothing. "SERENITY NOW" will live on as the catharsis it was intended to be. All of the creative mumbo jumbo will however be moving to Cleveland. Not really, I just don't want to divulge the name of the new blog until it's up and running and lookin' purty.

Stay tuned...it will be coming soon.

Eco-friendly Gift Bag

2009-02-26T13:31:00.003-05:00

Eco-friendly Gift Bag, originally uploaded by sunshine0216.

The customer purchased this outfit as a gift and wanted it mailed direclty to the recipient. I made a little gift-sack from a re-purposed pillowcase, a little ribbon, and added a sewn on gift tag and pocket. The paper is attached with big stitches so that it can be removed, and the bag can serve yet another purpose!

Noah concert 2.18.09

2009-02-25T19:26:00.002-05:00

Noah concert 2.18.09, originally uploaded by sunshine0216.

Something For Me!

2009-02-15T16:54:00.003-05:00

Japanese fabric and a desperate need for a new purse are behind my latest creation. I started with a simple pattern, and a million modifications later had a finished product. Even with the mods, it was a REALLY quick little project. I picked up some additional yardage (not so busy), to make 2 more for my sisters who I will see next weekend. After a little more tweaking, I'm hoping to have a couple in my store within the next month.

Necessity Is the Mother of Invention

2009-02-10T11:23:00.003-05:00

New Outfit for Oliver

2009-01-31T16:04:00.002-05:00

Oliver has just sprouted out of everything this winter. Suddenly everything is too short, yet when I buy a 5T, he complains that they are too long. He is *very* picky about the bottom of his pants fall. If it's even close to his toes...there's a song and dance involved.

So digging into the stash of clothes I have laying around for the purpose of RE-purposing, I got to work on this little creation. The plaid fabric is from an old pair of Peter's pants, and the rest was from old maternity clothes.

Now the set in sleeves were my first attempt, and aside from a small pucker on the left shoulder, I'm happy with the result. However, I have discovered that sewing sleeves feels like trying to put a square peg in a round hole. I was truly amazed when I finished, turned and pressed, that it actually looked like a sleeve!

And since they are for my little "engineer", I included a couple of train appliques. I'm in love with adding appliques...it's a great way to use scraps.

New Yardage ~ New Book

2009-01-29T09:56:00.002-05:00

new yardage.new book, originally uploaded by sunshine0216.

I've been dying to get this book ~Bend the Rules Sewing~ by Amy Karol for ages...found it on Amazon for a steal. And as if that wasn't exciting enough, the day it arrived I also recieved this new Japanese fabric that I had ordered through a co-op ages ago.

What I don't like about co-ops is that when I order something I have to be patient about waiting for it to arrive. But when it does, it's like Christmas...almost having forgotten about it at that point, and all paid for. And of course, I get it for a fraction of what I would pay retail

So I think I'll be making myself a new bag...we'll see...the fabric may be too busy. I'll have to be on the lookout for a coordinating solid.

A Prayer...by Oliver Andrews

2009-01-21T17:05:00.002-05:00

We ALWAYS say the "Bless Us O Lord" prayer before meals, but for whatever reason, Oliver has taken to doing his "own thing". It's always precious, and I almost never remember. Here is his latest:
Dear God,
Thank you for the morning rises, and for when the morning rises, the sun, your heart, and thank you for all the trees and bushes that you made. Amen.

According to Oliver

2009-01-19T17:15:00.005-05:00

When getting shoes and socks etc. so we can go out...
Oliver: Well...my preference is to have socks and no boots, but shoes.

Later in the car...
Oliver: I'm a scholar not a meatloaf.
Jill: Did you say scholar?
Oliver: Yes
Jill: Do you know what a scholar is?
Oliver: Sure, but I'm not a meatloaf because it's not....(trails off and gets distracted)
I'm still not sure where this came from, or where it was going.

A few minutes later Oliver sings his version of "We Will Rock You"...
We will we will rock you
We will we will rock you
But on your face
You know it's not like grace
So it's
We will we will rock you
(this repeats over and over again for a good 5 minutes as I discourage the older boys from correcting him)

This Baby Sleeps

2009-01-10T20:11:00.003-05:00

Shortly after waking from a nap, I looked over and Linus had fallen back to sleep sitting up. He looked so cute, and I couldn't resist the photo op.